Monday, May 10, 2010

What Happened???

So,
I don't usually share about my life to this degree, but I am feeling completely confused right now and would like some feedback....

I started talking to this guy (from pof of course) who seemed awesome. We had good conversation, and if not romantically, I still thought we would have quite an awesome platonic connection.

He shared with me some of his online dating mishaps, including one girl who agreed to add him to Facebook, and shortly after she dissapeared from his online world without a word. He told me that it made him feel totally rejected and slightly hindered his online dating experience.

I sympathized with his experience, and agreed to add him to Facebook and not let history repeat itself. I vowed to at least tell him I thought he was a total creep before removing him from my online social network.

When low and behold, he did the very same thing to me.

GUYS SERIOUSLY - what the fak is up with that. The only thing i dislike more than someone unwilling to meet me on a platonic level, is a hypocrite.

Can someone please for sake of my sanity clarify this practice for me? I am a normal human (sometimes.) and I enjoy the company of others. I am simple and do not carry many expectations other then you not be a drug addict ( I deal with that in my professional life enough as it is ).

Perhaps I have misread the situation....but...I doubt it.

To be honest - my feelings are hurt. I told him more things about myself then I typically would tell a person (A STRANGER at that) whom I have never met. So perhaps, that is the lesson for me, not to share all that I am with someone right off the bat. But I can't help but feel a tiny bit discouraged, and ALOT confused.